<P>白玫瑰的建议好！</P> <P>老棕熊应该开通不同的收款渠道：邮寄现金或MONEY ORDER都不必担心暴露马甲。用PAYPAL次之。如果你有PO BOX，到时给个邮寄地址好了。</P> <P>-- 户人<BR></P>

<P><STRONG>棕熊大哥，</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>您是否跟顶好老板打个招呼，俺把现金放在信封里，上写老棕熊收，然后交到一进门左边那个柜台，不知行吗？</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>--白玫瑰</STRONG></P>

<font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial" size="5"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 18px; line-height: 20px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; font-size: 16px; line-height: normal; white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; ">棕熊老弟, 你不会真困惑吧?他们指出你追逐名利。你确实有尾巴被人家逮住。 人家还指出方法帮你避嫌。不然这一壮举将得到成千上万援助。 ---棕熊知道猜我是谁。</span></span></font>

<P>老棕熊啊， 你让白玫瑰把现金放在“顶好”， 她怎么放啊？ 放柜台上？交顶好老板？ 是不是你做个盒子，写几个字，放顶好前台，好让人们轻轻地悄悄地放啊。</P>

<FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P align=left>大裤衩子，支票收到了，谢谢！</P></FONT> <P align=left></P><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P>玫瑰，放心，大哥俺顶得住，实在不行，让老锅请俺喝碗羊肉汤，提提神！嘿嘿。现金你就放在“顶好”，俺去取。妹子，谢谢了。明年，大哥请你吃亚城川菜馆绝对吃不到的：四川正宗回锅肉！</P></FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman"></FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P>一聊，谢谢你的跟贴，今天上班时，棕熊就看见了，很感动。“不要因为棕熊哥哥一走</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song">━</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song">那些孩子又依然回到没有希望的贫穷中。”我们改天商量细节，争取把事情做好。</P></FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman"></FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P>秦川牛兄，谢谢老兄的支持鼓励，你总是那么朴实！俺明年也以“老棕熊回锅肉”伺候。</P></FONT> <P><FONT face="Times New Roman">--<FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song">老棕熊</P></FONT></FONT>

<FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P align=left>哈哈，棕熊这么一篇破文章引来那么多的评论，是棕熊以前没想到的。现在最高兴的是老锅了。弄不好，老锅一高兴，明天就请俺在“京津小吃”喝碗羊肉汤！</P></FONT> <P align=left></P><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P align=left>各位啊，求求你们了，如果没有觉得俺这个事做错了，就不要在此有意或无意，以各种理由打击俺了。到目前为止，在这跟贴里面，有哪件损俺的事情，又是真的呢？俺现在心态好得很，你怎么说，俺个人无所谓。俺本来就有缺点错误，很正常喔，俺又不是神。怕的是，在这个事情上把俺弄得心灰意冷，俺不去了，受损失的，就是那些可怜的小孩了，那么，你就间接做了缺德事了。</P></FONT> <P align=left></P><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P align=left>尽管有其他渠道，比如像红十字会等，捐助贫困小孩，但是棕熊不想哪样做，棕熊也不认为俺这个事就做错了。对于捐助这件事，每个人当然可以有自己的看法和做法。但是如果你真觉得俺这个事做错了，请立马提出来，但请务必说出理由。俺不喜欢那种说半句话的人。有故意误导的嫌疑喔！</P></FONT> <P align=left></P><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song"> <P align=left>今天跟俺美女朋友聊天，俺挺佩服“</FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song" size=2><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song" size=2>路见不平</FONT></FONT><FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song">”朋友的，其实如果不叫俺撤了那张，不把支票寄过来，俺也不知道那是谁。这叫言而有信，是汉子！</P></FONT> <P align=left></P> <P align=left>--<FONT lang=ZH-CN face="MS Song">老棕熊</P></FONT>

dood 也好,boob 也好，一聊承认自己英文是不咋样，不过，这里不是比试英文水平的地方，this is not the point. the point is 有人不知出于何种心态，对别人做点善事老看不顺眼，想不通。<br><br>一聊<br>

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; ">一聊, Don't be silly. "Boob" is&nbsp;粗口 but "dood" is not.</span>

<P><STRONG>棕熊大哥，</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>玫瑰这两天没啥心情上168，也不明白发生了啥事，令您这么受质疑。</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>本来牛哥的几张照片，令我们由感慨到感动再到行动，终于有您愿意出来牵头将行动付诸实践了，这不是挺好的一件事吗？干嘛有人不开心呢？假如有人也愿意再牵一个头，我们也会支持一把的。大家说对吗？</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>至于有人说是为了博出名，俺倒不脚得就凭这几张支票就能出啥名了？太洒洒碎了吧？我们能做到的无非是出一点钱，表示一点心意，看到一小部分山里的孩子有我们的帮助能够上上学，吃上饭，看到孩子们的脸上有一分笑容，我们就满足了。我相信棕熊大哥的想法跟我们是一致的。</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>玫瑰的支票还未寄出去，盖因您的“冲凉理论”令俺脚得还是不想脱下马甲，能否将现金放到信封里，再交到诸如“顶好”之类公众地方，让其转交给您行吗？</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>顶好老板不是挺喜欢做善事的吗？区区小事应该不会太劳驾他们吧？行的话，这个周末就顺路交过去。</STRONG></P> <P><STRONG>--白玫瑰</STRONG></P> <P>&nbsp;</P>

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial">棕熊知道我是谁 =&nbsp;</font></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial">俺"美女"朋友</font></span></span>

<P>尊敬的168楼, 俺很佩服您的精辟见解, 俺们这一小撮就是自己吃饱吃撑了. 所以想分一点点给那毫不相干的一小小撮. 这dood俺觉得不够过瘾, 您就自己留用吧.</P> <P>还有愿意加入这一小撮的吗?&nbsp;&nbsp; -- 狍子</P>

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px; "><span class="use-with-mention"><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 11px; border-collapse: collapse; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: simsun; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large; "><b>一聊</b></span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large; "><b>兄:&nbsp;</b></span></font></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 11px; border-collapse: collapse; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; font-family: simsun; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large; "><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 19px; ">The "dood" is a superior way to spell "dude".</span></b></span></font></span></span></span></div></span></span>

<P>怎么想都不明白, 为什么有人就是能在鸡蛋里挑出骨头来?&nbsp; 帮帮这些可怜的孩子们, 有什么不对吗?</P> <P>&nbsp;</P>

更正,我说的是#168.<br><br>一聊<br>

#，你如果喜欢和自己的同胞 - 我猜你也是华人 - 讲英文的话，也该用些浅一点的词。对这个 dood,一聊翻遍字典，就是查不到出处，所以一聊只能猜大概是句粗口，上不了字典的。但不知是属于“S---”级还是“F---”级？<br><br>看来，你不但喜欢讲英文，还喜欢讲英文粗口，是不是这样会令你感到比较酷一点？一聊忽然记起从前听到过这么一句上联：外国人放个屁都是香的。现在我可以把下联对上了：洋老番讲粗口都是酷的。<br><br>说回主题吧。你的几行英文的意思是 - 如果一聊没猜错得话 - 亚城有几万华人，你们只有24张支票，所以你们不能代表大多数。按照这个逻辑，我们不但不是大多数，连少数也算不上，大概只能是一小撮。这一小撮人吃饱了没事干，要到一个鸟不拉屎的地方去帮助一些素不相识的穷孩子，真是TMD silly dood!<br><br>一聊对你的理解没有错吧？ silly boob!<br><br><br>一聊

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: pre-wrap; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>不</b></span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: normal; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>会</b></span></font></span></span><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>吧</b></span></font></span><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>？</b></span></font><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>一聊</b></span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>兄还</b></span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>不如</b></span></font></span><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>游客164</b></span></font></span><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>聪明</b></span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>？</b></span></font></span></span></span>

Come on, silly dood. &nbsp;24 out of potentially thousands can never be regarded as the majority.

164楼可以提出您方的cause,但应该尊重对方不同的opinions。<br />不应过于简单地把不同声音视为攻击。<br />也不应情绪化地猜疑对方的动机。<br />更不应动用"充满爱心,正义,友爱"来 psychologically harrass 对方。<br />这只能显示您方的弱点。

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; "><font class="floor"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">164</span></font><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">楼</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">可以</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">提</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">出</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">您</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">方</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">的cause,但应该</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">尊重</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">对方</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">不同</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: -webkit-monospace; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">的</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">opinions</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'MS Song'; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">。</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><div><font class="Apple-style-span" face="simsun"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px; "><font class="Apple-style-span" face="Arial"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">不应过于简单地</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">把</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">不同声音</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">视为</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: -webkit-monospace; white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; white-space: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">攻击</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'MS Song'; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">。</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></span></font></div><div><font class="Apple-style-span" face="'MS Song'"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">也不应</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">情绪化</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">地</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">猜疑对方</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">的动机</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'MS Song'; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">。</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></div><div><div><font class="Apple-style-span" face="-webkit-monospace"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">更不应</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">动用"</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">充满爱心</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: -webkit-monospace; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">正义</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: -webkit-monospace; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">,</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">友爱"</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">来 psycologically harrass&nbsp;对方</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'MS Song'; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">。</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></div><div><font class="Apple-style-span" face="-webkit-monospace"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: simsun; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; font-family: Arial; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">这只能显示您</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">方</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">的弱点</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'MS Song'; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; line-height: 20px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">。</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></font></div></div>

#163，你好像在自言自语，还把中国人拿出来说事，能把话说得明白一些吗？<br><br>一聊<br>